This is a Hard Gay. Pronounced Haado Gei. He’s a very popular TV character. I bought this toy of him at a convenience store. Push the HG his head and his eyes flash an alternating yellow and red, and a high pitched voice says things like “one, two, zree, wooooo!!”, “Haado Gei wooooo!” and “Domo! Haado Gei desu!” which translates, I guess, as “Thanks a lot! I’m Hard Gay!”.
OK, so, chuck out your Western models of sexual orientation, I think. Japan doesn’t have gays like the west. Well, I qualify that: I’m pretty sure they have much the same desire and the manifestation thereof as other gays. But gender-identity? We’re not in Kansas anymore.
I’m in no position to give any remotely accurate analysis of how Japan views homosexuality. But, it is true Haado Gei and many others like him are all over the mainstream media. As some academic I googled put it:
On television, in particular, the homosexual man is represented as an okama. James Valentine says of the okama stereotype: ‘In media portrayals okama look like fakes, trying to be women but noticeably failing.’ Okama are represented as the opposite of ‘normal’ men. … Japanese television loves to present documentaries and ‘wide shows’ (live variety programmes) detailing ‘surprising’ things or events and okama are often featured on these shows either as subjects of investigation or as studio guests.
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Yet no-one, it seems, is publicly recognised as being ‘gei’. A Japanese person we know who thinks HG’s funny, when asked about his sexual preferences, said “Oh, but he’s not gay.” No justification; none needed. Of course he’s not gay; it’s just a pretence. It’s funny.
This is not, I think a repression of homosexuality, the way we’d view it at home. Instead (taking a step back), I think we view our lives in terms of how much we can get out of it. You decide what you want from life, and then follow it. Western homosexuality, with ideas about ‘acceptance’, follows the same line. Here (and in many countries where you don’t have the choice to ‘follow your dream’), I think life is viewed differently. Japanese people have a strong sense of community, and of working towards the common good. There is no other explanation I can see as to why teachers stay so late at work, or why coming home on time implies to your family that your job isn’t very important. Seriously – they chat and sleep and read the newspaper for much of the day, yet they stay till 7 at least each night. The reason (as I see it) is that they are not thinking “I could be home relaxing, drinking a beer and watching Haado Gei”, but rather that almost exclusively the Japanese believe it important to be accepted and have a place in society. They don’t feel they’re not being fulfilled; fitting in is fulfulment. This idea runs pretty deep here.
I think we might not value this so much, and it has its costs, but we forget there are many ways we suffer in our eternal search for personal freedom, from teenage gangs to mid-life crises and on and on and on.
Just interesting, that’s all. What’s just plain weird, then? Gay men in Japanese girl’s manga.
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